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huh... you know as closed-minded as it sounds I never really even thought of just a solo guy webcam model. Not that I've gone out of my way to find male.models, all the cams I've seen with guys were just there to bang the chick running the show.

 

...huh...

 

Have no idea why I acted like I spotted a unicorn or something. I just never thought about.that being a thing. The sheeit you learn about.yourself

 

 

Anyways highlight, dam that's messed up because you were willing to.work through.that and she guilt trip Judy flipped that sheet.and made you the bad guy. Like... how.casual was she when she.said"I use to be an escort"? Was there shame in her words then? Did it not show until after you went deeper.into the questioning?

 

I mean, I can kinda understand where she.may.have reached that point where.her.trust.in you was dwindling. The human.brain is a tricky thing to navigate but this is one of those unfortunate situations where.you try to be nice and help someone through.a tough spot and they negate it all because of one moment you stop holding their hand and petting their.head

 

AND this tainted the relationship between you and your folks? or did that end when the dating did?

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Huh...

 

huh... you know as closed-minded as it sounds I never really even thought of just a solo guy webcam model. Not that I've gone out of my way to find male.models, all the cams I've seen with guys were just there to bang the chick running the show.

 

...huh...

 

Have no idea why I acted like I spotted a unicorn or something. I just never thought about.that being a thing. The sheeit you learn about.yourself

 

 

Anyways highlight, dam that's messed up because you were willing to.work through.that and she guilt trip Judy flipped that sheet.and made you the bad guy. Like... how.casual was she when she.said"I use to be an escort"? Was there shame in her words then? Did it not show until after you went deeper.into the questioning?

 

I mean, I can kinda understand where she.may.have reached that point where.her.trust.in you was dwindling. The human.brain is a tricky thing to navigate but this is one of those unfortunate situations where.you try to be nice and help someone through.a tough spot and they negate it all because of one moment you stop holding their hand and petting their.head

 

AND this tainted the relationship between you and your folks? or did that end when the dating did?

 

 

She was apologetic until I showed her adversity in her actions. That's when it became more about how I handled the situation rather than why we were in the situation in the first place (she was real bitter about me not telling her as soon as I found out. She said she couldn't trust me because I lied to her for a week. ha.) And you're right, she probably only loved the idea of me, you know? Once I wasn't an enabler, once I knew who she actually was, it was eggshells from there on out. Actions over words, moral of the story.

Oh and she couldn't be seen around my family anymore because I told her that they weren't completely accepting of her lifestyle immediately. I feel like if you love somebody, you don't cowardly run from that. You face the mess you made and make it right.

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You were a webcam model?

 

Yeah I had an actual job too, but I wanted extra easy cash.

 

Are there chicks into watching dudes webcaming or just gay guys?

 

 

I wouldn't know I'm blatantly lying.

 

 

 

I did assume you were bullshitting since you're Sammy.

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She was apologetic until I showed her adversity in her actions. That's when it became more about how I handled the situation rather than why we were in the situation in the first place (she was real bitter about me not telling her as soon as I found out. She said she couldn't trust me because I lied to her for a week. ha.) And you're right, she probably only loved the idea of me, you know? Once I wasn't an enabler, once I knew who she actually was, it was eggshells from there on out. Actions over words, moral of the story.

Oh and she couldn't be seen around my family anymore because I told her that they weren't completely accepting of her lifestyle immediately. I feel like if you love somebody, you don't cowardly run from that. You face the mess you made and make it right.

 

 

That's sad. Sucks for you because obviously you care about her. Sucks for her because it sounds like her ex broke her pretty bad and she's gonna treat everyone with that him-or-me mentality. Unless she finds one of those "Yes baby. Whatever you want baby" who doesn't question her on anything, which... good luck, she's not gonna be able to trust anybody for a long term.

 

It's just funny how that works, isn't it? "You lied to ME... even though you didn't, you just knew something and didn't tell me you knew. THAT constitutes a lie. Me not telling you I'm an escort... totally fine doe" v_v

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She was apologetic until I showed her adversity in her actions. That's when it became more about how I handled the situation rather than why we were in the situation in the first place (she was real bitter about me not telling her as soon as I found out. She said she couldn't trust me because I lied to her for a week. ha.) And you're right, she probably only loved the idea of me, you know? Once I wasn't an enabler, once I knew who she actually was, it was eggshells from there on out. Actions over words, moral of the story.

Oh and she couldn't be seen around my family anymore because I told her that they weren't completely accepting of her lifestyle immediately. I feel like if you love somebody, you don't cowardly run from that. You face the mess you made and make it right.

 

 

That's sad. Sucks for you because obviously you care about her. Sucks for her because it sounds like her ex broke her pretty bad and she's gonna treat everyone with that him-or-me mentality. Unless she finds one of those "Yes baby. Whatever you want baby" who doesn't question her on anything, which... good luck, she's not gonna be able to trust anybody for a long term.

 

It's just funny how that works, isn't it? "You lied to ME... even though you didn't, you just knew something and didn't tell me you knew. THAT constitutes a lie. Me not telling you I'm an escort... totally fine doe" v_v

 

 

Absolutely. She successfully justified herself in her own head to protect her sanity while manipulating mine it seemed. I was her "yes man" for awhile because she never really did me wrong, you know? When that happened it was just human emotion that came out and she couldn't accept that. Very sad.

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So I'm curious. Are you glad your mom went snooping, or do you kinda wish she didn't because you had a pretty good thing going with this girl?

 

Lol it's like you know exactly what has been stuck in my mind for months. Oddly, yeah, I wish I never knew about it because other than the secret, we got a long great and we understood each other, made each other happy, etc. I do regret lashing out because I did love her. It was a shitty situation. Everyone close around me who knew about it were against the idea of me continuing the relationship, so that played a role in why I grew so upset. Maybe she would have stopped maybe she wouldn't have, but in that time with her I was happy, so I do regret part of it.

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I draw the line at raising money for terrorists, that means she's a pussy, real hard ass hoes are active in the game, they out there getting lit for real, hate fakers and posers, they can get cancer and kill themselves tbh, would tell her that if she was a faker like that, raising money, dumb ass hoe.

 

 

She only dumb because she loves that though.

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Okay, people seem to be pretty forgiving around here, but what if your significant other participated in some sort of inter-species, south of the border bukkake marathon to raise money for terrorist? Would you still be cool with them, especially if the VHS tape of it was full of hot action?

depends on the terrorists.
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Okay, people seem to be pretty forgiving around here, but what if your significant other participated in some sort of inter-species, south of the border bukkake marathon to raise money for terrorist? Would you still be cool with them, especially if the VHS tape of it was full of hot action?

depends on the terrorists.

 

 

perfect

 

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Aww :(. Well again, that sucks things turned out the way they did. Thanks for sharing the story though, very interesting stuff.

 

Thank you all for cooperating, too :cool:

I'd be concerned your mum felt the need to Google her phone number. Invasion of privacy/doing stuff she probably shouldn't be involved with etc.

 

My mom has too much time on her hands, and kind of proved why it's so fun looking people up lmao

Ex was an idiot for not having two numbers. She tried to post another ad while we were "working things out" by spelling out her number (six three one instead of 631) and she still got caught. *censored*ing dumb what was I thinking.

SHE COULDN'T BE WITH SOMEBODY WHO DIDN'T TRUST HER BLAH BLAH BLAH EARN IT HOE

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