Tell us the BS going on right now in your life

[IɳFamous]

 

She didn't look drunk. I doubt she was. It was too early to be. Probably just a paranoid/uptight Bitch.

Most likely paranoia and maybe even insecurity since you took a selfie and she was behind you so she maybe wanted to believe the thought that you slyly tried taking a picture of her.

 

Lol at the fact her boyfriend didn't back her up, though.

That's the thing. She wasn't behind us. I was using the front camera of the phone to take the picture and she was in front of us to the side. She wouldn't even have been in frame if I was, for argument's sake, using the back camera. Even showed her the picture I took and she still won't believe me.

[Original IT Factor]

September 17th isn't coming fast enough! XD

[Chips.]

September 17th isn't coming fast enough! XD

+10.

[Royal Nakamura]

 

 

She didn't look drunk. I doubt she was. It was too early to be. Probably just a paranoid/uptight Bitch.

Most likely paranoia and maybe even insecurity since you took a selfie and she was behind you so she maybe wanted to believe the thought that you slyly tried taking a picture of her.

 

Lol at the fact her boyfriend didn't back her up, though.

That's the thing. She wasn't behind us. I was using the front camera of the phone to take the picture and she was in front of us to the side. She wouldn't even have been in frame if I was, for argument's sake, using the back camera. Even showed her the picture I took and she still won't believe me.

 

 

Just acting bitchy, then. She probably 'desires' to be the centre-of-attention so she thought this was a chance to jump at when she seen you taking the selfie of yourself (and her plan was to obviously use her boyfriend to back her up but he was just like: "Nah, mate, you brought this on yourself.")

[Generations]

I'm about to choke a bitch at work. It's gonna happen. These people are *censored*ing idiots.

 

I think half of my coworkers are inbred.

[damjan]

School yet again. A girl who's in my class thinks (and strongly argues) that the sole things the U.S. will do if they do enter Syria is to bring peace and democracy. Lmao. Just one of the examples. A girl in my history class called Sumerians Romanians and wasn't even corrected by the teacher.

[Kman]

Finally looks like I might be getting a flat with my girlfriend only problem is its apparently in a bad neighborhood. Also getting sick of cleaning up after lazy f***ers at work.

[.Legacy]

ITT: Angsty white folk bullshit.

[LEGION]

Actual bullshit.

 

I stepped into bullshit today. >.<

[Rockstar™]

 

September 17th isn't coming fast enough! XD

+10.

XD

School yet again. A girl who's in my class thinks (and strongly argues) that the sole things the U.S. will do if they do enter Syria is to bring peace and democracy. Lmao. Just one of the examples. A girl in my history class called Sumerians Romanians and wasn't even corrected by the teacher.

Lmao.

[Creepia]

Woke up with a dead leg, it hurts.

[MopOfVirtue]

Tomorrow I will wake up to a xenophobic, homophobic, technophobic theocracy, otherwise known as Tony Abbott's Australia.

[Crack.]

September 17th isn't coming fast enough! XD

[Creepia]

 

September 17th isn't coming fast enough! XD

[Nevermore.]

Tomorrow I will wake up to a xenophobic, homophobic, technophobic theocracy, otherwise known as Tony Abbott's Australia.

Ya beat me to it.

[Tsel]

Alright, story time folks, take a seat.

 

About a month and a half ago now, my girlfriend at the time decided to call me and tell me that things weren't working out and that she wanted to take a break and see where things stood. I had felt like there had been something wrong for a few days prior to this so I agreed to the break and figured it might be for the best. We agreed that we would take a 1-2 week break and then I would go visit her and see where things were. Two days later, she calls and decides that the break was what she needed and that we should break up fully. I want to say I saw it coming because things had felt different for a little while, like we weren't as close, but it still came as a little bit of a blindside, just because I didn't anticipate it happening so quickly. A 7 minute phone call was all it took to end a 5 year relationship. There I was, single for the first time in half a decade.

 

A little bit of a backstory on our relationship. I'm 22, she's 21. We started dating when we were both in high school. A couple years went by and she moved away to school, so from there on, we were long distance. It was only an hour away, but still, distance is distance. I would visit her and come stay with her at her dorm and eventually her apartment a few times a month. Fast forward to this past summer, she graduated and got a job in a city even further away, only 30 more miles, but again, distance is distance. With her new work schedule and the distance being even further, I began to visit her less and less. We were dating for 5 years, but over half the time was virtually a long distance relationship. I loved her and I still do, but at times I wished I was single because I felt like I had all the restrictions of being in a relationship, but hardly any of the benefits. I spent more time without her than I did with her.

 

So, I'm single again and almost immediately after the breakup, I reconnected with an old friend who happens to be a girl. We were friends back in high school, but she's 2 years older than me, so she graduated and went to college as well. I thought about her a lot over the years, but we didn't really talk. We were both busy doing our own things and during this time, I was dating another girl. Well, I had a really big crush on this girl back in high school, but never told her. Now that we had started hanging out again, I mustered up the courage to tell her that, only to find out that she felt the same way back in high school. I was blown away, thinking there was no possible way she could have liked me back then. We'd hang out with mutual friends and eventually started hanging out by ourselves. We'd hang out longer and longer and then I started spending the night at her place. I started out by sleeping on the futon next to her bed, then that progressed to her sleeping next to me on the futon, and eventually I made my way into her bed. The feelings I had for her way back when were back and stronger than ever and it was pretty clear that she felt the same way about me. We discussed this time and time again until I eventually worked up enough courage to kiss her. Things were going well.

 

She has had a variety of bad experiences with guys before me that left her in pretty bad situations. She has trouble trusting guys since she's been cheated on, so it was hard for her to trust me, let alone open up to me. We were getting closer and closer, but she made it clear that she wasn't ready for a relationship and me, just getting out a 5 year one, was nowhere near ready either. I wasn't trying to force things or move quickly, but that's the way it seemed to be happening. A few weeks of kissing, yadda yadda, and she decides that she's too afraid of losing me as a friend that she doesn't want to be in a relationship with me. She explained that she wants to be close/intimate with me, but she doesn't want those things unless she's in a relationship and she's not ready for that yet. Essentially, I had been friendzoned. I told her I wasn't going to abandon her and that I'd still be her friend, but it's extremely difficult to just push those feelings aside, especially after already getting as close as we had gotten.

 

We ended up getting into an argument, which was mostly my fault, and I'm scared that she'll never want to be as close as we were and that I'll be stuck with these feelings forever. We're on good terms again and I have no doubts that we'll remain good friends for a very long time, but I'm still scared that because of what she's experienced in the past, that she'll be too afraid to pursue anything long-term with me. It's a pretty shitty situation.

 

The crazy thing about all this is that this all happened within the span of a month and a half. Here I am now.

 

 

tl;dr Girlfriend of 5 years dumped me, got close to an old friend, was friendzoned

[JGPLX.]

If you still have feelings for your ex, then you shouldn't go after this new girl(especially because she doesn't want it). It'll only be a rebound it'll have a negative impact on everyone involved. Just try focus on yourself. Breakups *censored*ing suck man.

[Tsel]

If you still have feelings for your ex, then you shouldn't go after this new girl(especially because she doesn't want it). It'll only be a rebound it'll have a negative impact on everyone involved. Just try focus on yourself. Breakups *censored*ing suck man.

That's the thing though. I don't really have feelings for her anymore, at least not in that sense. I still care about her and want to be friends with her, but with over half of our relationship being long distance, I think it's safe to say that the distance finally caught up to us. The last few months of our relationship, we barely talked because we were both so busy and things just weren't the same.

 

Also, it's not like the feelings for the new girl came out of nowhere, especially since she's not technically a new girl. Old feelings came back.

 

I actually took the break up a lot better than I had anticipated. Yeah, it sucks, but I didn't get depressed like I imagined I would.

[.Legacy]

Alright, story time folks, take a seat.

 

About a month and a half ago now, my girlfriend at the time decided to call me and tell me that things weren't working out and that she wanted to take a break and see where things stood. I had felt like there had been something wrong for a few days prior to this so I agreed to the break and figured it might be for the best. We agreed that we would take a 1-2 week break and then I would go visit her and see where things were. Two days later, she calls and decides that the break was what she needed and that we should break up fully. I want to say I saw it coming because things had felt different for a little while, like we weren't as close, but it still came as a little bit of a blindside, just because I didn't anticipate it happening so quickly. A 7 minute phone call was all it took to end a 5 year relationship. There I was, single for the first time in half a decade.

 

A little bit of a backstory on our relationship. I'm 22, she's 21. We started dating when we were both in high school. A couple years went by and she moved away to school, so from there on, we were long distance. It was only an hour away, but still, distance is distance. I would visit her and come stay with her at her dorm and eventually her apartment a few times a month. Fast forward to this past summer, she graduated and got a job in a city even further away, only 30 more miles, but again, distance is distance. With her new work schedule and the distance being even further, I began to visit her less and less. We were dating for 5 years, but over half the time was virtually a long distance relationship. I loved her and I still do, but at times I wished I was single because I felt like I had all the restrictions of being in a relationship, but hardly any of the benefits. I spent more time without her than I did with her.

 

So, I'm single again and almost immediately after the breakup, I reconnected with an old friend who happens to be a girl. We were friends back in high school, but she's 2 years older than me, so she graduated and went to college as well. I thought about her a lot over the years, but we didn't really talk. We were both busy doing our own things and during this time, I was dating another girl. Well, I had a really big crush on this girl back in high school, but never told her. Now that we had started hanging out again, I mustered up the courage to tell her that, only to find out that she felt the same way back in high school. I was blown away, thinking there was no possible way she could have liked me back then. We'd hang out with mutual friends and eventually started hanging out by ourselves. We'd hang out longer and longer and then I started spending the night at her place. I started out by sleeping on the futon next to her bed, then that progressed to her sleeping next to me on the futon, and eventually I made my way into her bed. The feelings I had for her way back when were back and stronger than ever and it was pretty clear that she felt the same way about me. We discussed this time and time again until I eventually worked up enough courage to kiss her. Things were going well.

 

She has had a variety of bad experiences with guys before me that left her in pretty bad situations. She has trouble trusting guys since she's been cheated on, so it was hard for her to trust me, let alone open up to me. We were getting closer and closer, but she made it clear that she wasn't ready for a relationship and me, just getting out a 5 year one, was nowhere near ready either. I wasn't trying to force things or move quickly, but that's the way it seemed to be happening. A few weeks of kissing, yadda yadda, and she decides that she's too afraid of losing me as a friend that she doesn't want to be in a relationship with me. She explained that she wants to be close/intimate with me, but she doesn't want those things unless she's in a relationship and she's not ready for that yet. Essentially, I had been friendzoned. I told her I wasn't going to abandon her and that I'd still be her friend, but it's extremely difficult to just push those feelings aside, especially after already getting as close as we had gotten.

 

We ended up getting into an argument, which was mostly my fault, and I'm scared that she'll never want to be as close as we were and that I'll be stuck with these feelings forever. We're on good terms again and I have no doubts that we'll remain good friends for a very long time, but I'm still scared that because of what she's experienced in the past, that she'll be too afraid to pursue anything long-term with me. It's a pretty shitty situation.

 

The crazy thing about all this is that this all happened within the span of a month and a half. Here I am now.

 

 

tl;dr Girlfriend of 5 years dumped me, got close to an old friend, was friendzoned

 

There's no way I'm reading all of that but I tl;dr and I feel you, bro.

[Tsel]

 

Alright, story time folks, take a seat.

 

About a month and a half ago now, my girlfriend at the time decided to call me and tell me that things weren't working out and that she wanted to take a break and see where things stood. I had felt like there had been something wrong for a few days prior to this so I agreed to the break and figured it might be for the best. We agreed that we would take a 1-2 week break and then I would go visit her and see where things were. Two days later, she calls and decides that the break was what she needed and that we should break up fully. I want to say I saw it coming because things had felt different for a little while, like we weren't as close, but it still came as a little bit of a blindside, just because I didn't anticipate it happening so quickly. A 7 minute phone call was all it took to end a 5 year relationship. There I was, single for the first time in half a decade.

 

A little bit of a backstory on our relationship. I'm 22, she's 21. We started dating when we were both in high school. A couple years went by and she moved away to school, so from there on, we were long distance. It was only an hour away, but still, distance is distance. I would visit her and come stay with her at her dorm and eventually her apartment a few times a month. Fast forward to this past summer, she graduated and got a job in a city even further away, only 30 more miles, but again, distance is distance. With her new work schedule and the distance being even further, I began to visit her less and less. We were dating for 5 years, but over half the time was virtually a long distance relationship. I loved her and I still do, but at times I wished I was single because I felt like I had all the restrictions of being in a relationship, but hardly any of the benefits. I spent more time without her than I did with her.

 

So, I'm single again and almost immediately after the breakup, I reconnected with an old friend who happens to be a girl. We were friends back in high school, but she's 2 years older than me, so she graduated and went to college as well. I thought about her a lot over the years, but we didn't really talk. We were both busy doing our own things and during this time, I was dating another girl. Well, I had a really big crush on this girl back in high school, but never told her. Now that we had started hanging out again, I mustered up the courage to tell her that, only to find out that she felt the same way back in high school. I was blown away, thinking there was no possible way she could have liked me back then. We'd hang out with mutual friends and eventually started hanging out by ourselves. We'd hang out longer and longer and then I started spending the night at her place. I started out by sleeping on the futon next to her bed, then that progressed to her sleeping next to me on the futon, and eventually I made my way into her bed. The feelings I had for her way back when were back and stronger than ever and it was pretty clear that she felt the same way about me. We discussed this time and time again until I eventually worked up enough courage to kiss her. Things were going well.

 

She has had a variety of bad experiences with guys before me that left her in pretty bad situations. She has trouble trusting guys since she's been cheated on, so it was hard for her to trust me, let alone open up to me. We were getting closer and closer, but she made it clear that she wasn't ready for a relationship and me, just getting out a 5 year one, was nowhere near ready either. I wasn't trying to force things or move quickly, but that's the way it seemed to be happening. A few weeks of kissing, yadda yadda, and she decides that she's too afraid of losing me as a friend that she doesn't want to be in a relationship with me. She explained that she wants to be close/intimate with me, but she doesn't want those things unless she's in a relationship and she's not ready for that yet. Essentially, I had been friendzoned. I told her I wasn't going to abandon her and that I'd still be her friend, but it's extremely difficult to just push those feelings aside, especially after already getting as close as we had gotten.

 

We ended up getting into an argument, which was mostly my fault, and I'm scared that she'll never want to be as close as we were and that I'll be stuck with these feelings forever. We're on good terms again and I have no doubts that we'll remain good friends for a very long time, but I'm still scared that because of what she's experienced in the past, that she'll be too afraid to pursue anything long-term with me. It's a pretty shitty situation.

 

The crazy thing about all this is that this all happened within the span of a month and a half. Here I am now.

 

 

tl;dr Girlfriend of 5 years dumped me, got close to an old friend, was friendzoned

 

There's no way I'm reading all of that but I tl;dr and I feel you, bro.

 

Since you didn't read it, I feel inclined to say that I was already close to her and such before I was friendzoned. That's what makes this really hard. It's not like I tried to get close and she hit me with the friendzone. I was in man, I was in.

[.Legacy]

The one time I got friendzoned I felt worse about ruining our friendship than actually getting rejected.

[Jmerc]

Im that *Censored* who is mad thirsty for some WWE 2K14 news thats like the only bad thing going for me. Everything else is pretty great.

 

lmao this is so true

[.Legacy]

My life was complete shit before I got my Internet back after a few years of having it.

[Royal Nakamura]

 

 

 

 

Alright, story time folks, take a seat.

 

About a month and a half ago now, my girlfriend at the time decided to call me and tell me that things weren't working out and that she wanted to take a break and see where things stood. I had felt like there had been something wrong for a few days prior to this so I agreed to the break and figured it might be for the best. We agreed that we would take a 1-2 week break and then I would go visit her and see where things were. Two days later, she calls and decides that the break was what she needed and that we should break up fully. I want to say I saw it coming because things had felt different for a little while, like we weren't as close, but it still came as a little bit of a blindside, just because I didn't anticipate it happening so quickly. A 7 minute phone call was all it took to end a 5 year relationship. There I was, single for the first time in half a decade.

 

A little bit of a backstory on our relationship. I'm 22, she's 21. We started dating when we were both in high school. A couple years went by and she moved away to school, so from there on, we were long distance. It was only an hour away, but still, distance is distance. I would visit her and come stay with her at her dorm and eventually her apartment a few times a month. Fast forward to this past summer, she graduated and got a job in a city even further away, only 30 more miles, but again, distance is distance. With her new work schedule and the distance being even further, I began to visit her less and less. We were dating for 5 years, but over half the time was virtually a long distance relationship. I loved her and I still do, but at times I wished I was single because I felt like I had all the restrictions of being in a relationship, but hardly any of the benefits. I spent more time without her than I did with her.

 

So, I'm single again and almost immediately after the breakup, I reconnected with an old friend who happens to be a girl. We were friends back in high school, but she's 2 years older than me, so she graduated and went to college as well. I thought about her a lot over the years, but we didn't really talk. We were both busy doing our own things and during this time, I was dating another girl. Well, I had a really big crush on this girl back in high school, but never told her. Now that we had started hanging out again, I mustered up the courage to tell her that, only to find out that she felt the same way back in high school. I was blown away, thinking there was no possible way she could have liked me back then. We'd hang out with mutual friends and eventually started hanging out by ourselves. We'd hang out longer and longer and then I started spending the night at her place. I started out by sleeping on the futon next to her bed, then that progressed to her sleeping next to me on the futon, and eventually I made my way into her bed. The feelings I had for her way back when were back and stronger than ever and it was pretty clear that she felt the same way about me. We discussed this time and time again until I eventually worked up enough courage to kiss her. Things were going well.

 

She has had a variety of bad experiences with guys before me that left her in pretty bad situations. She has trouble trusting guys since she's been cheated on, so it was hard for her to trust me, let alone open up to me. We were getting closer and closer, but she made it clear that she wasn't ready for a relationship and me, just getting out a 5 year one, was nowhere near ready either. I wasn't trying to force things or move quickly, but that's the way it seemed to be happening. A few weeks of kissing, yadda yadda, and she decides that she's too afraid of losing me as a friend that she doesn't want to be in a relationship with me. She explained that she wants to be close/intimate with me, but she doesn't want those things unless she's in a relationship and she's not ready for that yet. Essentially, I had been friendzoned. I told her I wasn't going to abandon her and that I'd still be her friend, but it's extremely difficult to just push those feelings aside, especially after already getting as close as we had gotten.

 

We ended up getting into an argument, which was mostly my fault, and I'm scared that she'll never want to be as close as we were and that I'll be stuck with these feelings forever. We're on good terms again and I have no doubts that we'll remain good friends for a very long time, but I'm still scared that because of what she's experienced in the past, that she'll be too afraid to pursue anything long-term with me. It's a pretty shitty situation.

 

The crazy thing about all this is that this all happened within the span of a month and a half. Here I am now.

 

 

tl;dr Girlfriend of 5 years dumped me, got close to an old friend, was friendzoned

There's no way I'm reading all of that but I tl;dr and I feel you, bro.

Since you didn't read it, I feel inclined to say that I was already close to her and such before I was friendzoned. That's what makes this really hard. It's not like I tried to get close and she hit me with the friendzone. I was in man, I was in.

I think that when a man kisses a woman, they see it as you attempting to get close to them; some not even taking into account that they would be technically getting close/intimate too by continuing the kiss and not stopping it.

 

I know how you feel about being left in the most by a girlfriend; I came out of a turbulent relationship with my ex that had lasted for four months. I ended up having her tell me, with my friends there, that she hated me; she used to watch me from obscure locations (like, I used to catch her watching me by looking around).

 

I didn't want to be in a relationship anymore because I realised that the start is always the best bit. Realising you and that girl seem to share that connection and you just want to take her hand and walk with her through a beautiful journey.

 

However, I ended up being intimate w/ this other girl a while back and we ended up being together. Defo the best-looking girl I have been with so far and you know when you suddenly imagine all of these adventures you want to embark on with the girl you seemingly fancy/love?

 

That's how I felt. I was adamant I wanted to be in a long-term relationship with her but as soon as she got a new phone, she tweeted for people to direct message her on Twitter for her new number. I did so. She didn't respond but she was still actively tweeting. I didn't understand what was going on.

 

I let things slide for a while. A week or so, she's putting up Beyonce tour pictures and everything; I'm like, "You didn't even think of me at all during that time?" I'm not being selfish but to be completely enjoying without even any thought of me despite the fact you were talking about how you'd like having kids with me in the future is a bit strange.

 

I messaged her again, no reply. Still actively tweeting. Fast forward to now, I can say I was in the same position as you. Not legit being given the friend zone but my situation was a bit worse in the sense that no response is harder to swallow.

 

However, I can say that yours was emotionally harder to swallow in the sense that you and her go quite back and you both had crushes for each other so it's as if the flame was rekindled between you both.

 

This is what I won't understand about girls fully. I kind of know that you can't stop feelings as I was blindly in love with my other ex and couldn't dump her until things became a bit too much for me to handle but the way some women cut some men off are upsetting.

[Clark Kent]

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